There comes a time when who you really are becomes apparent to you and to everyone around you. The “real you” typically emerges in challenging times, emergencies, and during moments of pressure. The rest of the time, your actions and attitudes are choked and obscured by the myriad of “Little Voice” messages, particularly the ones driven by fear of what others think about you or fear of looking stupid, that mask what really lies underneath.
In these times of rising unemployment, rampant government printing of dollars, increasing tax and loss of retirement funds, everyone is getting a chance to see who they really are. The question is…how do you show up?
In a recent Sales & Leadership Mastery Program that I conducted, an interesting pattern emerged that was both disturbing and brilliant. As always, I put the group into teams and gave them a series of tasks and challenges designed to teach them how to build a multi-million dollar business in a few days. After conducting this program numerous times across the globe, I’ve noticed a common pattern emerge.
Let me give you the pattern, and you can see where in this spectrum you show up. You see, it doesn’t seem to matter what the task is…as long as the context is set up for change. That context includes the components of compressed time, high stakes and being somewhat out of your comfort zone. All necessary for rapid growth.
1. First of all, I assume that most people are not only capable, but brilliant. This assumption has rarely let me down. It is the “Little Voice” issues that stand in the way. You are way bigger than you think you are. If the environment and the context are right and the “Little Voice” can get pushed out of the way…the bigger you will show up.
2. With that talent in place, this recent group came out of the gate quickly. They made lots of calls and made lots of contacts early. Unleashed to the tasks, they jumped into each challenge quickly by taking on the early stages with a vengeance. They exhibited this strong and fast behavior over and over again in everything that they did.
3. Then something disturbing showed up. When it came to actually making sales in this case, or driving a final result of any kind…their numbers were paltry. They seemed to always take the path of least resistance. Even though they started strong, when it came to actually producing a quantifiable meaningful result, they took the easy way out…they did the minimum.
Yet, I am reminded of the statement I saw in the movie “Miracle” by Herb Brooks, the legendary coach of the 1980 USA Olympic Hockey Team which, against odds, won the gold medal…when he said to his team, “You think you can win on talent? You do not have enough talent to win on talent alone. To win, you cannot be ordinary.”
I agree with him. For many years we have become blinded by our own brilliance and resourcefulness. Yet in these unprecedented times, we forget that talent around the world is now cheap and plentiful.
There was one word, however, that drove that Olympic team to the top. A simple word. A forgotten word in our world of instant gratification, get-it-over-with and one-shot wonders. The word is “AGAIN.” When a drill was not up to standard, he made them do it again. It is the most important word to achieving results. It means simply picking up your energy and spirit, and going after the task again…and again…and again…until the path of least resistance is replaced by…
4. An undeniable, uncompromising, resilient spirit that truly creates financial, emotional and personal results beyond the ordinary. In my latest program, each time a result came up short of what I thought the teams were capable of, I made them do it again. Whenever a performance or task faltered, I simply said, “again.” Over the grumbling, whining and resentment, do you know what happened? They not only did the tasks again, but ultimately set all new records in sales, profit, team performance and breakthroughs. Had I let earlier results ride as “okay” but not great…that brilliance would have remained buried.
The good news is that over the course of a few days, most of the teams’ response time to “again” was faster and faster, until finally there was no need for “again” on the final day. They came through as true champs in all the tasks. No matter what athlete, business leader, performer or professional I interview or study, the most important word in their lives is AGAIN. Have you ever noticed that the word itself says…”a gain?” Each repetition is a gain on the prior experience. But you’ve got to be relentless and you’ve got to repeat to get the gain.
You see, there’s a resilience in you that you probably undervalue and underutilized. An ability to resurrect victory from the ashes of defeat…to turn mistakes into powerful learning and progress. What I observed each time I forced an AGAIN was a fiery comeback and resilient change of momentum which is what is needed now more than ever.
Yet not all is good news. A few individuals always choose NOT to rebound. They choose to do what many are choosing to do now which is “endure”…wait it out. Just endure the stress until the storm passes, hoping that someone will “fix” the situation and “give” them a way out. That is a painful and debilitating existence that results in poverty, depression and helplessness.
What about you?
What if you eliminated step two?
What if you took on the tougher tasks early and drove hard for them?
What if you never settled for the path of least resistance?
What if the word “AGAIN” became a relentless part of your routine?
What would your life look like?
What would your income look like?
What would your health, fitness and relationships look like?
You see, inside of you is a truly great person. Will everyone experience it? Probably not. But those who do will live lives of abundance, power and satisfaction. There is a point in time when greatness occurs. It is that time when Steps 1-4 are compressed and you decide to be truly relentless in your pursuit to achieve the results you want in your life.
That relentlessness to repeat again and again will fatigue the “Little Voice” that stops you. It will build a permanent momentum that, like the 1980 hockey team and like our sales and business teams around the world, will continue to accelerate results that to others seem beyond the ordinary. Should you chose to adopt the word AGAIN into action, this momentum will become your life.
As I stated earlier, it’s in trying times that the ”real you” is revealed. Without the discipline of AGAIN and the relentlessness to reject the path of least resistance, a mediocre and frustrated you will emerge. With the discipline…the magical you becomes the norm.
Reject the path of least resistance. Be relentless with “AGAIN.”
Be awesome,
Blair Singer
August 4, 2009
One Simple Word…
There comes a time when who you really are becomes apparent to you and to everyone around you. The “real you” typically emerges in challenging times, emergencies, and during moments of pressure. The rest of the time, your actions and attitudes are choked and obscured by the myriad of “Little Voice” messages, particularly the ones driven by fear of what others think about you or fear of looking stupid, that mask what really lies underneath.
In these times of rising unemployment, rampant government printing of dollars, increasing tax and loss of retirement funds, everyone is getting a chance to see who they really are. The question is…how do you show up?
In a recent Sales & Leadership Mastery Program that I conducted, an interesting pattern emerged that was both disturbing and brilliant. As always, I put the group into teams and gave them a series of tasks and challenges designed to teach them how to build a multi-million dollar business in a few days. After conducting this program numerous times across the globe, I’ve noticed a common pattern emerge.
Let me give you the pattern, and you can see where in this spectrum you show up. You see, it doesn’t seem to matter what the task is…as long as the context is set up for change. That context includes the components of compressed time, high stakes and being somewhat out of your comfort zone. All necessary for rapid growth.
1. First of all, I assume that most people are not only capable, but brilliant. This assumption has rarely let me down. It is the “Little Voice” issues that stand in the way. You are way bigger than you think you are. If the environment and the context are right and the “Little Voice” can get pushed out of the way…the bigger you will show up.
2. With that talent in place, this recent group came out of the gate quickly. They made lots of calls and made lots of contacts early. Unleashed to the tasks, they jumped into each challenge quickly by taking on the early stages with a vengeance. They exhibited this strong and fast behavior over and over again in everything that they did.
3. Then something disturbing showed up. When it came to actually making sales in this case, or driving a final result of any kind…their numbers were paltry. They seemed to always take the path of least resistance. Even though they started strong, when it came to actually producing a quantifiable meaningful result, they took the easy way out…they did the minimum.
Yet, I am reminded of the statement I saw in the movie “Miracle” by Herb Brooks, the legendary coach of the 1980 USA Olympic Hockey Team which, against odds, won the gold medal…when he said to his team, “You think you can win on talent? You do not have enough talent to win on talent alone. To win, you cannot be ordinary.”
I agree with him. For many years we have become blinded by our own brilliance and resourcefulness. Yet in these unprecedented times, we forget that talent around the world is now cheap and plentiful.
There was one word, however, that drove that Olympic team to the top. A simple word. A forgotten word in our world of instant gratification, get-it-over-with and one-shot wonders. The word is “AGAIN.” When a drill was not up to standard, he made them do it again. It is the most important word to achieving results. It means simply picking up your energy and spirit, and going after the task again…and again…and again…until the path of least resistance is replaced by…
4. An undeniable, uncompromising, resilient spirit that truly creates financial, emotional and personal results beyond the ordinary. In my latest program, each time a result came up short of what I thought the teams were capable of, I made them do it again. Whenever a performance or task faltered, I simply said, “again.” Over the grumbling, whining and resentment, do you know what happened? They not only did the tasks again, but ultimately set all new records in sales, profit, team performance and breakthroughs. Had I let earlier results ride as “okay” but not great…that brilliance would have remained buried.
The good news is that over the course of a few days, most of the teams’ response time to “again” was faster and faster, until finally there was no need for “again” on the final day. They came through as true champs in all the tasks. No matter what athlete, business leader, performer or professional I interview or study, the most important word in their lives is AGAIN. Have you ever noticed that the word itself says…”a gain?” Each repetition is a gain on the prior experience. But you’ve got to be relentless and you’ve got to repeat to get the gain.
You see, there’s a resilience in you that you probably undervalue and underutilized. An ability to resurrect victory from the ashes of defeat…to turn mistakes into powerful learning and progress. What I observed each time I forced an AGAIN was a fiery comeback and resilient change of momentum which is what is needed now more than ever.
Yet not all is good news. A few individuals always choose NOT to rebound. They choose to do what many are choosing to do now which is “endure”…wait it out. Just endure the stress until the storm passes, hoping that someone will “fix” the situation and “give” them a way out. That is a painful and debilitating existence that results in poverty, depression and helplessness.
What about you?
What if you eliminated step two?
What if you took on the tougher tasks early and drove hard for them?
What if you never settled for the path of least resistance?
What if the word “AGAIN” became a relentless part of your routine?
What would your life look like?
What would your income look like?
What would your health, fitness and relationships look like?
You see, inside of you is a truly great person. Will everyone experience it? Probably not. But those who do will live lives of abundance, power and satisfaction. There is a point in time when greatness occurs. It is that time when Steps 1-4 are compressed and you decide to be truly relentless in your pursuit to achieve the results you want in your life.
That relentlessness to repeat again and again will fatigue the “Little Voice” that stops you. It will build a permanent momentum that, like the 1980 hockey team and like our sales and business teams around the world, will continue to accelerate results that to others seem beyond the ordinary. Should you chose to adopt the word AGAIN into action, this momentum will become your life.
As I stated earlier, it’s in trying times that the ”real you” is revealed. Without the discipline of AGAIN and the relentlessness to reject the path of least resistance, a mediocre and frustrated you will emerge. With the discipline…the magical you becomes the norm.
Reject the path of least resistance. Be relentless with “AGAIN.”
Be awesome,
Blair Singer
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